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- AIDS NEWS SERVICE
- Michael Howe, MSLS, Editor
- AIDS Information Center
- VA Medical Center, San Francisco
- (415) 221-4810 ext 3305
- December 9, 1994
-
- Safer Sex: Information for Counselors
- (Part XIII)
-
- Sexual Relapse
- by John Tighe
-
- Sexual relapse is a term used to describe behavior by
- individuals who gave up high-risk practices, such as unsafe sex,
- at an earlier stage of HIV epidemic, but have since fallen back
- into their former practices. In some cases, individuals may vow
- to give up a practice but fail to keep their resolution. Unsafe
- sexual practices include uprotected receptive or insertive anal or
- vaginal intercourse, oral-anal contact and unprotected receptive
- or insertive oral sex.
-
- Research Update
-
- From the early 1980s when it was first learned that HIV could
- be transmitted during certain sexual practices, and continuing for
- several years after that, the prevalence of those risk behaviors
- declined.
- This behavior change was noted most dramatically within gay
- communities in large cities such as Los Angeles and San Francisco,
- where behaviors were studied. Little research has been done in
- smaller communities or among heterosexuals. A survey in San
- Francisco found that the percentage of subjects who reported
- engaging in unsafe sexual activities during a 30-day period dropped
- from 59% in 1984 to 25% in 1987 (San Francisco AIDS Foundation,
- 1990). Reports of reduced rates of unsafe sex were supported for
- several years by cohort studies that showed declining rates of
- sexually transmitted disease (STD) and HIV seroconversion.
- An increase in unsafe sexual activities was first noted in
- 1988. A survey conducted by the San Francisco AIDS Foundation in
- 1989 documented an increase in high risk behavior, including a
- significant number of individuals who acknowledged a return to
- unsafe activities. Thirty percent of the 401 subjects in the
- survey defined unsafe sex as unprotected anal intercourse,
- oral-anal contact, fisting or oral sex with ejaculation.
- Eighty-five percent of the survey's subjects said they had made a
- commitment to avoid unsafe sexual behaviors. Sixteen percent of
- those who made the commitment failed to keep it and had "relapsed"
- into unprotected sex sometime in the previous year. Relapse rates
- were highest among young men, people of color, and those with lower
- incomes. These individuals also were among the most likely to
- report engaging in unsafe sex. Subjects were an average of 38.6
- years of age, and 83% of all subjects were white.
- In a study of 389 gay men in San Francisco, 19% of the
- subjects reported they sometimes reverted to risky practices (Stall
- et al., 1990).
- Researchers estimated that in San Francisco as much as 75% of
- all unsafe sex could be attributed to relapse, with only 25% of the
- unsafe sex attributed to those who have never adopted safer-sex
- practices.
-
- Cause of Relapses
-
- Studies show that many factors can lead a person to relapse
- into unsafe behavior, including some that involve emotional issues.
- The factors are:
-
- o Both partners have the same HIV status. In one study,
- one-third of the participants reported returning to unsafe sex
- practices because they had the same antibody status as their
- partners (Stall et al., 1988). Individuals who are both positive
- may feel, incorrectly, that there is no danger in having
- unprotected sex; this belief is incorrect because an individual may
- be reinfected with a different strain of HIV or may be infected
- with an opportunistic infection that a partner is carrying.
- HIV-negative individuals may decide to engage in unsafe sex when
- they are told, or they believe, that their partner is also free of
- infection. Many times, individuals' trust in their partners may
- be misplaced. And, many people may believe incorrectly that they
- can discern another person's HIV status by casual observation.
- o Absence of condoms. Although individuals may regularly use
- a condom, they may be unwilling to forego sex when they do not have
- a condom readily available. In some cases, people may have condoms
- in their home, but may not be able to locate them during sexual
- foreplay, and will have sex without a condom.
- o Stress. An individual who feels the burden of stress may
- seek to release these feelings, and may place great importance on
- easy outlets for reducing stressful feelings, with little concern
- for whether a behavior is unsafe.
- o Overwhelming sexual desire. An individual's sexual desire
- may overwhelm other desires, including desires for safer sex. In
- a study by researchers Stall et al., who surveyed patrons at gay
- bars in San Francisco, more than half of those who reported
- engaging in at least one incident of unsafe sex did so because they
- were "sexually turned-on" by their partners.
- o Fear that a partner will disapprove of condoms or
- restrictive sexual behaviors. Many individuals engage in sexual
- practices based on their perception of the practices they believe
- their partners will desire. This lack of assertion can lead
- individuals to avoid discussing their feelings about safer
- behaviors. A mistaken belief that a partner prefers unsafe sex
- can lead a couple to practice unsafe behaviors even when each
- partner prefers to practice safer forms of sex.
-
- Recent Factors
- As the risk of infection through certain behaviors has
- continued, and individuals have started to realize that they might
- never be able to safely resume some behaviors that were once
- popular, other factors have made individuals increasingly
- vulnerable to relapse. These are:
-
- o Unwillingness to give up behaviors for an extended time
- period. In the early stages of the epidemic, individuals who gave
- up unsafe activities expected to do so for only a short time.
- Several years later, some are not willing to make the behavior
- change permanent.
- o High-risk activity among young gay men. Younger gay men
- may incorrectly consider HIV to be a disease of an older
- generation, an therefore believe that by limiting their sexual
- contacts to other young partners they can have unsafe sex without
- risking infection.
- o Resumption of sex after several years of abstinence. To
- avoid infection, some individuals abstained from sex in the early
- years of the epidemic. As they become active again, they are
- unfamiliar with the risk levels of certain behaviors or the role
- of the condoms in preventing infection.
- o Belief that promising treatments will soon be available to
- make HIV a less serious disease. Believing that HIV may become
- increasingly treatable, individuals are more willing to practice
- unsafe activities even with people known to be infected. In the
- 1990 survey by the San Francisco AIDS Foundation, 18% of those
- surveyed reported engaging in unprotected anal intercourse in
- which at least one of the men was known to be infected with HIV.
- o Belief that permanent behavior change is not possible. Many
- individuals return to practicing unsafe sex when they become
- convinced that they are not capable of permanently changing their
- behaviors. These individuals may state that they lack the "will
- power" necessary to practice only safer forms of sex. Individuals
- who did believe they were capable of making changes are much more
- able to reduce their risk activities.
- o Beliefs about the activities of peers. Many individuals
- who perceive that their peers are resuming unsafe sex are likely
- to feel pressured into returning to unsafe sex as well. Peer
- pressure can have a rapid multiplying effect on the prevalence of
- unsafe sexual activities.
- o Effects of alcohol or drug use. Intentions to refrain from
- unsafe sex are often made while sober. Resistance is weakened when
- a person is under the influence of alcohol or other drugs.
- Individuals under the influence of alcohol or another drug
- are significantly more likely to engage in unsafe sex. Even a
- small amount of alcohol can impair motor coordination and judgment,
- and some drugs, like crack cocaine, can heighten sexual desires and
- enhance sexual activity.
- Under the influence of drugs or alcohol, individuals may have
- ambivalent feelings toward accepting risk, or they may believe
- there is no chance of becoming infected. Also, because of a loss
- of motor coordination, individuals may have difficulty properly
- applying condoms.
- One study of gay men found that those least likely to have
- ever followed safer sex guidelines were most likely to be habitual
- users of alcohol and other drugs during sexual activity (St.
- Lawrence et al., 1990). And those most likely to relapse into
- unsafe sexual behaviors were also more likely to have been under
- the influence of alcohol or other drugs at the time of relapse.
- In a study in Oakland and San Francisco, 25% of young, urban
- crack users reported either giving or receiving sexual favors for
- drugs or money, and 73% stated they had engaged in at least five
- behaviors that put them at increased risk for HIV or other STDs
- (Fullilove et al., 1990). This study of 222 black adolescents
- crack users and sellers showed that a large number reported having
- sex while under the influence of crack. A large number of the
- subjects reported that they "usually" do not know ahead of time if
- they are going to have sex because "it just happens".
- While rates of HIV infection among gay men are declining in
- many regions, the rate of new infections in many cities is still
- increasing among substance abusers and their sexual partners.
-
- Differences for Single Men
- Reasons cited for relapse are different for men in a
- relationship compared to those who are single. Single men most
- often state their reasons for relapse as drunkenness, an absence
- of condoms or a request from a partner that condoms not be used.
- Men in relationships respond that they have relapsed into unsafe
- activities because they are "in love", or because they believe that
- their partner has the same antibody status.
- Men more likely to relapse are those who state that they "run
- in a fast crowd" in which risk-taking is met with social support,
- and those who cited anal sex as their favorite activity. Relapsers
- who have seroconverted tend to be young, frequent drinkers and
- those who believe that insertive anal sex is safe.
- Knowledge of HIV antibody status may not have a significant
- effect on deterring unsafe behavior. And, some individuals may be
- more susceptible to sexual relapse after learning their antibody
- status.
- In the case of a positive antibody result, individuals may
- believe their attempts to prevent infection may have been
- unsuccessful and there is no reason to continue to practice safer
- forms of sex. Individuals who test negative may feel that because
- they have been given what they consider a "healthy" report, they
- may be more lenient in their adherence to safer-sex guidelines.
-
- Methods of Reducing Relapse
- Researchers have suggested that relapse to unsafe sex can best
- be understood when unsafe sex is studied as a permanent behavior
- change, similar to the way other unhealthy behaviors such as
- smoking, alcohol use, diet and a sedentary lifestyle, are examined
- (Stall et al., 1988).
- Research suggests it is relatively easy to halt a behavior
- for a limited time, but quite difficult to permanently eradicate
- that behavior. At the start of the epidemic, individuals resolved
- to alter their practices but believed they needed to do so only
- temporarily rather than make long-term changes.
- Many individuals still expect that they will soon be able to
- safely engage in any sexual practice. And some do not fully
- understand or believe that, unlike a person who occasionally slips
- into other unhealthful behaviors, a slip into even one episode of
- unsafe sex can mean infection with HIV.
- Continuing education and reinforcement are also important to
- preventing relapse. When not continually presented with safer sex
- messages, some individuals lose their awareness of the importance
- of safer sex or believe that practicing safer sex is no longer
- necessary. Health educators have also suggested that discussion
- of the relapse issue should be a primary role of education efforts.
-
- REFERENCES
-
- Fullilove RE. Fullilove MT. Bowser BP. et al. Risk of sexually
- transmitted disease among black adolescent crack users in Oakland
- and San Francisco, Calif. Center for AIDS Prevention Studies.
- Journal of the American Medical Association. 1989;263(6):851-55.
-
- St. Lawrence JT. Brasfield TL. Kelly JA. Factors which predict
- relapse to unsafe sex by gay men. Poster presentation from the
- Sixth Internatinal Conference on AIDS. June 19-24, 1990, San
- Francisco.
-
- San Francisco AIDS Foundation, Communication Technologies. HIV-
- Related Knowledge, Attitudes, and Behaviors among San Francisco
- Gay and Bisexual Men: Results from the Fifth Population-Based
- Survey. Unpublished report, 1990.
-
- Stall R. Coates TJ. Hoff C. Behavior risk reduction for HIV
- infection among gay and bisexual men: A review of results from the
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- Traux SR. Ramirez A. Fraziear T. Annual Evaluation of the Anonymous
- Human Immunodeficiency Virus Testing Program. Sacramento: Office
- of AIDS, Department of Health Services, State of California, 1989.
-
- Implications for Counselors
-
- Often, many clients will commit in front of counselors to
- practice safer sex, only to lose their resolve in a sexual setting,
- while some clients will make promises to counselors that they never
- intend to keep. Other clients tell counselors they have no
- intention of permanently restricting their sexual practices.
- For all of these clients, risk reduction guidelines have
- limited use. Counseling for these individuals and for others who
- have relapsed into unsafe activities, may require an examination
- of the client's background and other psychosocial factors. For
- instance, a troubled client may consider precautions for safer sex
- to be a low priority. And an individual with a low sense of worth
- may believe risk to be acceptable.
- Because many individuals who vow to practice safer sex lose
- their resolve when under the influence of alcohol or other drugs,
- acknowledgment and help with a substance abuse problem may be
- needed. This may include a careful assessment of drug and alcohol
- use, current and historic, and in some cases referral to an alcohol
- substance abuse program, or to a self-help, 12-step or similar
- intervention.
- Some alcohol and drug users who relapse may not understand
- the connection that drug and alcohol use has to relapse, and these
- individuals may not understand the relevance of referrals to them.
- For these clients, it is important to explain that being under the
- influence of alcohol or other drugs does have an effect on their
- resolve to practice safer sex, and they should try to understand
- their relationship.
- Other individuals may lose their resolve to give up unsafe
- sex because of a lack of self-esteem, which makes them unable to
- assert their desires for safer sex to a partner. For these
- individuals, acknowledging this difficulty may be a part of the
- counseling session.
- It may be useful to offer specific teaching skills to help
- clients anticipate and successfully deal with the temptation to
- relapse, and to negotiate safer sex with partners. This may be
- done by discussing a client's level of confidence and ability to
- assert feelings and intentions to a partner. In addition,
- counselors might engage clients in a role play involving partner
- negotiation.
- Learning about a client's behaviors and background can be
- useful in some cases to determine if that person is more likely to
- relapse. For instance, individuals who are more likely to relapse
- tend to engage in unprotected receptive anal intercourse more
- frequently than others and they generally have a greater number of
- overall sexual partners. Because men in relationships may have
- different reasons for relapse from men who are single, counselors
- need to know about an individual's current and past relationships.
- Peer support is important in maintaining behavior change and
- combating the multiplying effect of relapse. Many individuals
- perceive that their peers are not practicing safer sex and they
- feel pressured to conform to what is being practiced.
- Because a trend toward relapse can have a multiplying effect
- within a community, clients may need reinforcement to help them
- maintain safer sexual behavior and assert their desires for safer
- sex to partners.
- Antibody test counselors can reiterate the importance of safer
- sex and provide positive support for those practicing safer sex.
- And counselors can encourage clients to enter support groups to
- maintain their resolve to practice safer sex. Peer-led support in
- a relaxed group may be the most useful way to acknowledge concerns
- about relapse, and may lead to a reduction in the tendency to
- relapse.
- Counselors must remember that knowledge of risk does not
- necessarily lead to a decrease in risk behaviors. Most gay men in
- large cities who are practicing unsafe sex are well-informed about
- the dangers of their activities. Knowledge is important in making
- an individual aware of risks, but prevention of relapse involves
- a more comprehensive study of the reasons a person practices unsafe
- sex and the specific factors that motivate behavior change for the
- individual.
- Counselors also need to be aware that individuals who receive
- a positive test result are vulnerable to relapse, and that
- individuals may return to unsafe sex regardless of their test
- result. Clients may not even realize that they are susceptible to
- relapse at this time. It may be helpful for some clients to be
- aware of this tendency so that they can better anticipate some of
- the feelings or impulses that may arise after receiving a negative
- or a positive test result, and prepare to deal with them
- constructively.
-
- Test Yourself
-
- 1. True or False: Relapse into unsafe sexual practices can be
- eliminated if an individual is willing to commit to avoid unsafe
- sex.
-
- 2. Most unsafe sex is attributed to individuals who a) never
- adopted safer sex practices, b) have relapsed into unsafe sex after
- having practiced safer sex, c) believe all activities are safe, d)
- none of the above.
-
- 3. True or False: Many researchers say that unsafe sex can best be
- eliminate from an individual's behavior by viewing it as a
- short-term change.
-
- 4. One study showed that rates of relapse are highest in San
- Francisco among a) older men, b) younger men, c) well-educated men,
- d) long-time residents of the city.
-
- 5. Alcohol use often leads individuals to practice unsafe sex
- because alcohol can a) impair motor coordination and make condom
- application more difficult, b) deter judgment, c) create feelings
- that risk-taking is acceptable, d) all of the above.
-
- 6. True or False: Relapse is often attributed to emotional
- factors.
-
- 7. True of False: STD infection among gay men is decreasing.
-
- 8. What percentage of participants in a San Francisco survey
- committed to avoid unsafe sex, but broke this commitment and
- engaged in unsafe sex? a) 75%, b) 4%, c) 16%, d) 50%.
-
- Discussion Questions
-
- o Do you think relapse is a problem among the clients you've been
- seeing for HIV antibody testing? Why or why not.
-
- o What would your strategy be if you were working with a client
- who reported recent slips into unsafe behavior? What information
- would you need to gather? What suggestions and general counseling
- would you offer?
-
- o What are some possible referrals that might help the client
- reporting relapse?
-
- o Do you think a discussion of relapse should be a standard part
- of antibody test counseling? Why or why not? If so, when would
- you have this discussion? In the pre-test session? In the
- post-test session?
-
- o Are there clients for whom the issue of relapse is not relevant?
- If so, who would they be?
-
- Answers to "Test Yourself"
-
- 1. False. Vows to eliminate unsafe sex can be broken by many
- factors, including use of alcohol and other drugs, low self-esteem
- or self-assertion, depression, stress or falling in love.
-
- 2. B. Researchers estimate that in San Francisco as much as 75%
- of all unsafe sex could be attributed to relapse, with only 25% of
- those performing unsafe sex having always practiced unsafe sex.
-
- 3. False. To eradicate unsafe sex, individuals must view it as
- a permanent behavior change. The tendency to view it as a short-
- term change makes an individual more susceptible to relapse.
-
- 4. B. Younger men are most likely to relapse into unsafe sex.
-
- 5. D. Alcohol can have all of these effects.
-
- 6. True. Individuals often cite emotions of being "in love", an
- "overwhelming sexual desire" or stress as reasons for relapsing
- into unsafe sex.
-
- 7. False. Rates of STD infection among gay men are increasing
- in many parts of the country, and a report in the Seattle, Wash.,
- area showed a dramatic increase in the cases of gonorrhea for 1989.
-
- 8. C. 16% of the individuals who made a commitment to avoid
- unsafe sex had broken this commitment.
-
- Editor's Note
-
- The information included in this document was obtained from
- the 1991 January issue (Vol. 1, No. 1) issue of "HIV Counselor
- PERSPECTIVES." PERSPECTIVES is an educational publication of the
- California Department of Health Services, Office of AIDS, written
- and produced by the AIDS Health Project of the University of
- California San Francisco (John Tighe, writer and editor). Reprint
- permission is granted, provided acknowledgment is given to the
- Department of Health Services.
-